Beautiful, Unique, Extraordinary

It is a new season, It is a new fresh start.

πŸƒπŸŒΊ I’ve been so poor with my posts here on this blog, with everything being hectic personally – the self love has been low, as well as the motivation, and focusing on university, and slacking. So it has not been easy.

But God pulled through.

I have lost everything recently, and I have struggled, but I am so happy, and blessed that I had to go through what I needed to, and what was necessary. Because, this roller-coaster ride is one of the best things that I could be on. In the storm and chaos, I finally am so happy to say that I surely am who I am meant to be, and for who God has transformed and created me to be. I lost myself for Him, BUT I have found myself completely made anew, and full by His grace, mercy and love.

I am so much better, and I want to tell you, that whatever season you are in, and wherever you are at in your life, whether it be full of highs and lows, don’t you dare ever give up. This is a hard process, and it will take a lot of trust, belief and hope, positivity and motivation to get through it.

You may be down on the ground right now and in the darkness, but let me tell you: Maybe you are being planted, maybe the rough patch and the hardships are turning into something beautiful, unique, extraordinary and amazing. Do not focus on the negative things that are happening and the things that are making you suffer. You are growing, into something so much more beautiful.

The suffering isn’t made for you to suffer, but instead it’s to help you, God will never fail or forsake you. You’re the chosen one, and you are blessed. Good things will happen.

Don’t give up, and focus on the three main components:

  • Self-love: Keep loving yourself, your weaknesses, your strong points, your beauty, your flaws. Keep taking care of yourself internally and externally, making sure that you are not slacking or even hindering your growth, as well as being toxic. Be happy, and know that this process of growth is not easy, take each day at a time. You better love yourself ‘cos God loves you, and you gotta love that beautiful person that you are. Keep shining, and keep focusing on taking care of you. LOVE YOU.
  • Positivity: Keep a positive and a clear mindset (Trust me, I know that this is hard) because when you do, it will be so much easier to look at the goodness in things. Speak and think of only good things, that are beautiful, that are beneficial and things that will help you. It’s so much more efficient and easier to spend your time focusing on things which are so much more positive and helpful than those things that are negative and toxic. Think about how blessed you are and how far you have come by the grace and deliverance of God. IF He has done it once, God will be able to do it many more times because His powerful and love is not limited.
  • Motivation: You will be where you need to be, you will achieve and be who you are meant to be, just be still and patient. Your growth is useful and beneficial, stay focused and fixated on the prize and dreams that you want to achieve. Remember that it takes hard work, humility and patience to be where you need to be and to achieve the goodness of things. Things in life could potentially happen overnight, but they don’t. Trust your process, and live in the moment now, because when you have and are where and what you want, you will regret not waiting and enjoying where you were before. There is a specific time and moment when you will achieve all that want, keep moving forward and keep driving and working to get ahead. DO it all for you, and for God and not for men. People may have hurt you, and people may have doubted you, but guess what – it’s all or nothing and it’s all about you. Keep grinding, goodness is coming.

Wherever you are at in your life right now, trust in God, trust your purpose and your vision. Trials and hardship arrive not to knock you down and stop you from achieving all that you want, and what God has called you to do. The caterpillar is in the dark for however long, and then magnificently, the butterfly ascends. You will be in the darkness and in the pain, but it’s for you to grow, and it’s for you to change – you will be beautiful, successful, happy and positive in all due time. Don’t give up, keep moving forward. Pray and trust in God – believe in Him, He created you and brought you in this world and He has greater things in store for you. Keep praying, Keep your trust in God.

Trust God, Trust your vision, Trust your purpose, Trust your pain.

{And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. – Romans 8:28 KJV}

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Positivity: Don’t put yourself down.

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š This is something that we as human beings are so certain to do. We may be hard on ourselves when it comes to life – our goals, dreams, aims our body goals or work goals or just achieving something in general. We may be hard on ourselves for failing. But the question is did we really fail?

Positivity is all about about bettering ourselves and what we do, there’s moments in my life when I’m so positive and feeling deeply in love and content with myself because I’m happy and doing everything I set myself out to do. But there’s also moments whereby I actually maybe feeling down which is a normal thing but I shouldn’t put myself down because I haven’t done my best that day or for even small things like looking good or praying.

Failure is inevitable and its something that will occur no matter how hard you work, how long you did it for, it just didn’t work out the way you expected it to. This doesn’t mean you’re not competent enough or you won’t succeed in life. It just means that you can never give up, you gotta keep trying, you gotta give it your all and you have to think and feel positive.

Don’t look at your failure as something negative. Look on the bright side here – you found out what specifically wasn’t working, how to change, how to improve and how to do it better. 100x better.

If you continually are hard on yourself and you listen to all the negative nonsense feedback and criticism externally you will give up and that’s what you’re not meant to do, you’re meant to learn.

God continues to give us trials and temptations so we can draw closer to Him and that we acknowledge that we cannot do or be without Him. God has and us continuing to make everything work out in my life. He is capable and possible of doing things, even the extraordinary things. God is the one that never fails, He will never fail or forsake us. He is my provider and I may have failed, but with my God I can do all through Him.

You may have slipped up maybe once, twice, ten times but don’t stay down where you have fallen, you gotta step up, get up, brush it off and act like it never even happened. Oh that time I didn’t reach my goal, I didn’t get that grade, I don’t remember. I’m only a winner. It happened yes but you’re only taking the positives rather than the negatives from it.

You’re not here to compromise, to settle, to give up, to back down, to stop, to delay and to be negative when it comes to your goals, aims and dreams.

You’re worthy, capable, great, extraordinary, equipped, certain and fabulous to achieve the goals, that one thing that stopped should be the main thing that makes you do it and achieve it.

Go get em, prove yourself and others wrong. That failure shouldn’t and cannot stop you.

[That ye would walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto His kingdom and glory. | 1 Thessalonians 2:12 KJV] πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š

Motivation: Be your own COMPETITION.

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š my note to self: always be good for you. Everything that you ever want to achieve in this life and all your goals and dreams should help you stay focused and motivated because this is all for you. There can and will be other people that you will want to achieve your goals for. But let this first be you.

Allow yourself to be open to the change that will happen in your life because you’re changing and working on something that will impact your life and this will be beneficial to you. There will be people however that will certainly not like this and will want you to stay the same person forever – this should not be something that prevents you from advancing and being a goal chaser because you will need to inhibit new skills such as discipline, organisation and less time with those who put you down so do whatever you have to do, to get there.

There is going to be people who are going to be in the same field as you wanting to do the same thing or something similar. BUT don’t let this throw you off track.

You should leave these people on the side and do your thing. Remember God has these things in store for you and whatever is yours shall surely come to pass and God will bless you and will never have you lacking or failing, He never withholds anything from us. God is the one that will let good things happen to you, exceedingly, abundantly and above all. Don’t fret or be afraid of others, fear is not within us, we shall be strong, pray and focus on the word and promises of God.

Remember the past and the ways in which you changed, remember your failures. Don’t remember them to feel distressed or upset but rather to benefit, better and reflect on the mistakes and the things that didn’t go well. If you failed to achieve your goals of weight what did you do wrong? And as a result of this, focus on changing, doing better and reaching your goal. If you failed an assignment, look back at what you did wrong again it may have been lack of revision and if so change that and revise thoroughly and do things differently all the time.

Competition with others is toxic and negative and something that I will not recommend. You will best yourself up and be upset because you didn’t achieve what you wanted but instead they did. Don’t allow that to happen to you. Instead know what you want to achieve and the ways in which you want and give yourself deadlines and speak it into existence and watch you claim it.

If people say you’re not worthy or capable of achieving that goal, do it for yourself, prove them wrong and show yourself that negative criticism will not put you down and that you’re able to do anything you put your mind to.

If you did something great once, don’t stop there do something great once again and continue on the the road of good, content, successful competition. However, don’t put yourself down or be toxic towards yourself when you’re competing with yourself, love yourself and be soft, know your limits and boundaries.

These goals are for you and nobody else. I compete with myself daily and I start each day afresh in order to accomplish something better and to exceed my potential. Compete and help yourself get to where you need to be. Compete and finally find out that you can do everything you put your mind to and with prayer and thanksgiving you’re blessed. Compete and know that you are able to push yourself and when you finally compete with yourself, you will be producing the fruit and achieving things that you never thought in million years you will be able to. But you will prove yourself wrong many times.

Start today to better yourself, to achieve anything you want and most importantly to make yourself proud. You can and will do it. You’re better than you were yesterday. Go get what you deserve and what God is blessing you with.

[O house of Jacob, come ye, and let us walk in the light of the Lord. | Isaiah 2:5 KJV] πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š

Self Love: Be Extraordinarily 4 U.

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š We can get so caught up in the world and loving others that we actually never in fact be who we are, and the creation, love and beauty that we were called to be by God.

We end up losing ourselves and the love that we have for who we are the perfection and the beauty that shows outside and the beauty and light that shines. Regardless of your age, gender, ethnicity you’re beautiful and you’re different. Why do you want to be the same as the next girl or boy?

God placed us here on the earth to be different, unique and yourself. We are meant to be perfect for God himself and not perfect for the boys or girls. We are created for a purpose and that is to be extraordinary use the gifts and talents that are given to us.

Set aside time alone for yourself to work on all your difficulties which may be your anger, your weaknesses, your temptations and the things which you dislike about yourself. Spend time also on bettering yourself – get stronger, love your flaws, assess all that good you’re doing. Be proud of how far you have risen from that problem and dislike you may have experienced.

Remember that you’re love, you’re soft, you’re beautiful being just you.

I believe that when you really have an idea of how great you are, the beauty and grace in you, you can accomplish everything. You will be able to love yourself without anyone being beside you because you love you more than anything.

You need to love others yes, but if you’re not experiencing that same love back then people, give yourself that love that you’re missing. You will always love people but focus on giving it to yourself.

I have currently spent less time on myself and loving me and being soft because of all the external factors and the stress of others that I have been thrown around in the waves that I haven’t really given myself the time I need to focus on loving my strengths and weakness and the beauty that is in me.

I will begin again, today.

Lets start to love ourselves the right way we deserve, let’s give ourselves some good love and let’s be perfect, beautiful and happy as well as extraordinary internally, for us. We have nothing in front of us stopping us from loving ourselves, if you wanna be stronger, greater, confident, happy and in love, it all starts with you. I hope you start to love yourself, be yourself and adore the woman/man that God created you to be. Be Love. Have love. Spread love. Love U.

God is love and so we are love for He loves us.

[Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which in heaven is perfect. | Matthew 5:48 KJV] πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š

Positivity: Don’t compare yourself. Be patient.

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š This is really important for me at this current point in my life. I’m speaking for myself, but I hope it speaks to you and you gain something amazing from this.

This is a time in my life whereby I see plenty of different people around me doing exceedingly well, advancing and achieving great things and I am completely happy and pleased for them. But I just can’t seem to think when will my time be.

But this is when I have the most faith in God because I know He will pull through and that all my waiting will only lead to something greater and much more extraordinary and special.

Just because you may see people who have their life together and that things are working out for them that’s only what you can see and what that persons wants to show you.

You never knew what the person may have gone through to have what they have now. Everyone’s success happens at different intervals and times. God will never have you to lack anything or to suffer. He will never leave you nor forsake you. You bear the fruits which you sow.

You have to go through the struggle, the efforts, the grind, the heartache, the patience, the positivity and belief that regardless of the wait all things are working for your good. It will all pay off and it will all be worth it. Keep working hard regardless of yourself and those around you.

You’re more than capable, you have the capability to succeed, to do good and to have everything you want and deserve. You get in what you give, so give it all your all and give all that you have and more. When you’re about to give up remember where you started from and how far you’ve come. Life isn’t easy and its a never ending battle.

Just because everyone else may have it doesn’t mean that one day, eventually you won’t. You will have it greater and be far more blessed.

Remember it’s about the work you put in and the hunger you have for it that will determine the likelihood of receiving your blessing. Be productive and positive, better days are coming.

Don’t compete with nobody in this life apart from yourself. Work on bettering yourself and achieving greatness. Be happy. Be positive. Know that you’re in this for a beautiful and prosperous ride and that you can go at any pace suitable for you. Whether it’s fast or slow. Take care and focus on yourself. Be patient, be still and wait.

John 15:5

< I am the vine, ye are the branches, He that abideth in me and I in Him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. >

Love,

Rojina. X

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Motivation: Get what you want.

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š Whatever it is that you want to do, become, gain, have you can do it. 

If you want to be able to have your hearts desires, and all the things you’ve written down for your 2018 goals and new years resolution, know that it is possible and you have the potential to achieve beyond the ordinary. 

God will bless you this year, and whatever you need and desire God will allow for it to come pass, be patient and it will arrive. God will never allow you to lack anything in this life and He will establish you. 

Nothing is too hard or to difficult to achieve. Its just our mindset, or people by you that will attempt to discourage you and prevent you from experiencing and achieving all that you can. 

If somebody has been successful, why can you not be? 

Don’t limit yourself and your expectations, where God guides, God provides. 

If you have a plan, if you have goals that you desire to reach and if you are focused and if you’re hungry for it, girls and boys, you are gonna get it. There’s nothing more beautiful then wanting to reach all your goals, there’s going to be days when you work extremely hard or days when you procrastinate on your dreams.

It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to get it, it doesn’t matter how you do it. Its the end result which counts, its the ending to the journey of achieving your goals, the dreams and desires you have. Its about getting to the end, knowing you worked hard, knowing you gave it you all, knowing you made sacrifices knowing you stayed motivated throughout the down days and the tough times and that you never gave up. 

God will provide and make a way for you, be patient and trust in His timing, remember its His plan and its His work, its His will, He will be the one that knows the right moment, He knows when to bless you, He is always on time. Be patient and don’t lose faith, we always become sad, annoyed and devastated when things don’t work out when we want to but that is not the care, continually seek God’s will and plan and He will give you more than you could ever plan of. Trust in Him. Wait for Him.

There’s dreams and plans that I want to achieve and there’s thing I have achieved already, I’m thankful enough and its all down to the hard work, the belief in myself. You have to believe in you if no one else will. It was down to the commitment knowing I’ve come this far from the beginning and I cannot stop, I have to keep going toward, I got to get to the end. Its been tough and it still is but I know I have the capability of achieving all that I set my mind to. Its about being motivated during the good and bad times. Its about looking ahead and not focusing on those who discourage you and want to see you feel and think you are basic or incapable. Let that motivate you let it drive you to prove them wrong, but when you achieve all that you wanted, do it for you and be humble, don’t show off or be petty, let God show them. 

We are masterpieces and we can do and get what we want, when we think about it, plan it, believe it, pray about it and ask God for it. 

Don’t stop. Keep pushing. Keep going forward. It will be worth it. You’re more than capable. Work hard. Believe and have faith. 

Psalms 27:14 // Wait on the Lord : be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.

Love, 

Rojina xo

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Self Love: Be the best, for you.Β 

πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š It is extremely hard currently to do, behave, act and love according to however it is that you want to. People will never be genuinely happy or supportive of what it is that you want to do with your life, time, effort and energy. That is why you have to be your own hype man/woman and believe in yourself. 

Be your own internal motivation. Rely heavily on yourself and what you want to accomplish. Whatever you want to do, however you want to live, love and be free, do it for your own good.

God instilled it in you for a reason, He made all these plans, aims and dreams specifically for you and so no one can relate or equal to the blessings and greatness God has for you. 

You have to love yourself, your life, your visions, dreams, plans, ideals and focus. Nobody will get you to where you want to be. You want to be a size 10, do it for you. You want to get a degree, do it for you. You want a car, do it for you. You want to love God, do it for you. Do every single thing you can do possible for yourself.

Its absolutely acceptable to love what you want to do, and that you have to be selfish for your greater good. People will abandon and leave you, but brush it off and remember you cannot stop. You have to be the best for you. You have to love yourself because nobody can do it as good as you.

There will be days when you may be low and feeling incapable, but you will have to love yourself and build yourself up on every aspect of your life – mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. You will need to take care of your own self and invest in you. 

Be the best, don’t limit yourself. Don’t hurt yourself and put yourself down or even stop caring about you. This is dangerous and is toxic to your love and growth.

Remember God put you here to be an example, to love and to lead. To follow His perfect will and to live a righteous and blessed life. Victory belongs to us, we are already conquerors. Keep fighting. Believe in yourself. Love yourself. Invest in you. Be the best. 

You are the best; and the best is yet to come. 

Its all love, its all joy, its all prosperity. Its all greatness. Its all self care.

But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.


1 Corinthians 2:9

Love, Rojina πŸƒπŸŒΏπŸŒ»πŸ•Š